Chopping Off Your Hand Due to a Misunderstanding

We humans are silly little creatures, and abstract beliefs rule our lives. On a routine basis, we destroy ourselves over ideas that exist only in our minds. Perhaps no incident illustrates this point better than the case of a 15-year-old Pakistani boy who cut off his own hand due to a misunderstanding.

Anwar Ali, the teenage son of a poor laborer, was attending evening prayers. That’s when Shabbir Ahmad, the Imam leading the prayers, asked for a show of hands as to those who did not love the prophet Muhammad. Anwar, thinking the man had asked who did love the prophet (which would seem to be the more logical statement), raised his hand.

The Imam shouted out “Blasphemer!” in front of the whole congregation, branding him a non believer. So Anwar, fashioning himself a loyal follower of Islam, left and cut off his own hand with a scythe for the crime of having accidentally committed blasphemy. He returned to the imam later that day, presenting the gift of his severed right hand and asking for repentance.

Authorities in Pakistan’s Punjab province have charged the cleric with using hate speech to incite violence. In yet another twist of insanity, the boy’s family says they are actually proud of what he did.

This may seem like an extreme example of beliefs gone wrong, but only because we’re not accustomed to people lopping off their own hand. Yet I could point to just as many instances in this country in which a similarly absurd belief has driven someone to suicide.

Three Things That Will Make You Smarter Than Your Friend

How much do you know about your world? Here are 3 things many people claim to know, followed by some important facts on each topic that will instantly make you smarter. Read through each one and make a mental checkmark next to each item you already knew to be true:

  1. Humans use less than 10% of their brain.

  2. The AIDS virus originated in Africa when someone had sex with a monkey.

  3. The fashion designer Tommy Hilfinger said he wished black people wouldn’t wear his clothes because it tainted his brand, causing Oprah to kick him off her show.

So, how many of these bits of wisdom were you already aware of? Better yet, how many of these items do you accept as true? If you said zero, congratulations: This is becaure each and every widely accepter “fact” we just listed was in actuality completely false – a cultural myth that has been told and retold again until enough people believe it to make it seem true. In actuality . . .

The idea that humans use only 10% of their brains.

This myth is so often repeated that you’ll commonly find it given as a “fact” all over news and radio shows. In reality, humans utilize all of their brain capacity. This myth started because examinations of the brain revealed that only around 10% of it is composed of neurons, whereas the other 90% of brain matter consists of glial cells. Neurons are what transmit electrical signals and seem to encode information, whereas the purpose of glial cells was largely unknown at the time. (Though still somewhat mysterious, science has since discovered some of the roles these cells play.) Yet journalists who didn’t understand the discovery misread the finding to mean that humans only use a fraction of their brain potential. It’s also a somewhat comforting myth – implying that we’re all geniuses just waiting to be turned up to full capacity – which is probably why it spread like wildfire.

On the origin of AIDS.

HIV did indeed originate in Africa and come from monkeys, but not because someone had sex with one. Rather, hungry people who needed to feed their families frequently butchered bush meat, providing regular contact with the raw blood of monkeys, which facilitated the jump from monkeys, which facilitated the jump from monkeys to humans. SIV, the ape version of the virus, has been around in monkeys for at least several thousand years – long enough that it is rarely deadly anymore for primates. Yet you’ll encounter scores of people who believe the monkey sex tale, probably because it makes for a more interesting story.

Oprah versus Tommy Hilfinger.

Oprah did indeed kick Tommy Hiflinger off her show, but not because he actually said such things. Oprah is just a gullible woman, who, being the queen of gossip,foolishly believes everything she hears. The alleged insult never happened . . . it was an internet rumor.

The true test of wisdom.

If you did poorly on this quiz, don’t feel bad. Just about everyone who reads this article will have been fooled into believing at least one of these myths. The real test of intelligence is not about whether or not you already knew these things, but rather, how you use this newfound information going forward.

The point of this exercise was to illustrate a simple fact: Much of what we believe to be true comes to us from haphazard or misleading sources, and can turn out to be utterly and completely wrong. And if these assumptions about something (or someone) can be so wrong, so are the conclusions we all form on a regular regarding the world we live in.

The reality is that there are thousands upon thousands of assumptions we all make in our everyday lives which are just as erroneous as these “facts” listed here. That brings us to the true measure of intelligence: Having the wisdom to know that there are many things you don’t know that might alter your perspective if you did, and that many of those things you assume to be true may not in fact be correct. This realization is far more important for intelligent thinking than any particular fact, and will put you one step ahead of almost everyone else you meet.

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